the break up....

I got a txt msg a few days back from one of my baby cuz....she just had her 1st break up...and when i was back in KL for hols all she talks about was this was this person..like we all do when we all 1st fall in love with that someone...it seems that everything that comes out from you gob is that person's name...but when the break up happens..it all falls to peices..and to make matters worse she has to see this person everyday and work side by side...how cruel is that???? i know nothing i say can make her feel better..she will have to heal her broken heart in due time.

Reason for the break up....a statement used one to many times...."I love you but, kite memang takde jodoh"...heard this one before???? hahaha a slap to my face duchhh..i actually used the same reason in a slightly different words..haha...but for my case..it was that reason..i could have never happen and we would have made each other miserable.

do u remember you 1st break up?? i don't really remember it now..it seems that it was along time ago..all i remember is that it was a long break up with a lot of arguments..tears and heartache...u know one of those that u think was the end but then oppss..its not..and it drags on and on and on...until it was finish..and finished..and i must say when it finally ended it was a relief. We are still good friends now...we check on each other from time to time..we were together for 6 yrs..and believe it or not he was my 1st boyfriend.

After him they were a few other flings here and there..nothing serious and i havent had any big break up's since...alhamdulilah..

the 1st one is always the hardest but its the one u will always remember and think of when u have the next and the next one..and u realise that it doesn't seems soo bad after all...so my dear cuz..i hope ure feeling better now...if its meant to be it will be..some guys are not worth crying for..